Wednesday, July 7, 2010

boot camp

I have always had submissive fantasies, Lo7 is new to the Domme roll, but learning very fast. We juggle between vanilla responsibilities and our secret life. L07 has decided we have been exploring long enough, She has an idea what she wants out of my submissive side but needs to "tear me down and rebuild me".
I have to agree that I do control when I feel like being Sub and that is very frustrating for L07 so she "read the riot act"
When she is ready, she will inform me on a Friday morning and I MUST
1)Clear all plans for that weekend
2)Have groceries and a menu for a light meal Friday night.
3)At 5:00 pm Friday-5:00pm Sunday all my rights and freedom I am accustomed to cease, and I must go directly home and  proceed and obey any instructions I receive  from LO7 without question .
4) If Lo7 is not home and there are no instructions I must simply strip and put all my possession's in "her master bedroom in a box she will provide.
5) Naked , I must now simply wait for my Mistress to arrive, being stripped of rights I may not turn on a TV/radio/computer or eat or drink I must just stand or kneel which ever Lo7 has required and wherever she has required ,me to do so and wait for her.
6) Lo7 has also informed me that any time I am in the waiting mode. I must be using my brain to think of nice things I can do for her , Meal planning , surprise romantic evenings etc. She has also informed me that this is a very important task and while she may be relaxing with friends having a glass of wine I must be using this down time to better our lives. This task of rebuilding my submissiveness is very important and when she does get home the ideas and commitment I share with LO7  will determine where I sleep that night. Bad=garage floor Through Excellent = Master bed
7) LO7 has assured me that we will have a weekend of full Mistress -Slave lifestyle (and by slave she assures me i will not as much as breath without her consent) complete with humiliation private and public, discipline and lots of pampering for her. At the end of the weekend she will review and together we will sit down and talk about what works and does not work for us. LO7 will ultimately make the decision on how much control she will retain from decision making, financial issues and our sex life. LO7 has also warned that if I disobey or even speak with out permission she may end the weekend at any time and this she says would be very detrimental to our future relationship. 1 Last request LO7 has ask me to do is to ask readers for there input on what other things we should explore in this boot camp weekend.
So now I only can wait for her 5:00 o'clock call.


Selena and Dymion said...

Sounds like a fun weekend is in the works. Congrats, and beware of what you wish for, for it may be granted to you...

There is nothing that keeps the D/s flow of energy going like rituals and protocols. So since you know what L07 likes in terms habits, drinks, snacks, I would suggest that you plan to make those happen at an exceptional level of service, and in a very submissive mood.

For example, is there a drink she likes coming back from work? If so, get her the best of what she drinks, serve it in the best glass you have, make sure it is ready for her in a place she can't miss, and don't forget the coaster and cloth napkin.

What about coffee service in the morning? Her favorite coffee, best cup, served from your knees...

Are you ready to prepare at least one of her favorite meals? Or take her out to a favorite restaurant? If you go out, make sure she gets seated first. Are you well stocked on her favorite snacks?

What condition is the house in? Does it need some cleaning up? Get to it before she asks! Is there a cleaning schedule that needs to be made up to keep you busy while L07 has a little alone or break time?

What about her bath/shower? Does she have her favorite soap/lotion? Are the towels freshly washed? Maybe she needs a new fluffy bath towel? Make sure you wash it. What about a great bath robe? Does she have one, or does she need a new one? Make sure you wash it! Unless L07 asks you to do sometime else in the meantime, you will hold the towel for her during the shower, won't you?

L07 should receive at least a foot massage a day over the course of the weekend. Don't know how to give one? Get a book now! You have 48 hours!

Is there any entertainment in town that L07 would enjoy attending? Offer it to her. If you go out, make sure the car is clean, and that you never forget to open her carside door first. And if you go out in public, perhaps some locked ankle cuffs under your long pants may (or may not) be to L07's liking as a reminder and to keep the mood going.

These are just a few very simple idea, but what I'm trying to get across is... anticipate her needs... meet them at the highest level... have them taken care of almost before she asks... and have the right frame of mind while you are doing it. Kind of a "honor to serve you" attitude.

That's all I have time for right now, but I hope this gets you started.

Owned & collared by Goddess Selena

Lady Grey said...

If she gives you a choice between standing or kneeling while you await her arrival, choose kneeling, head down. If she tells you to stand, make sure your head is looking at the floor and it would be a good idea to clasp your hands behind your back whether you're kneeling or standing. Avoid eye contact unless she wants it, and believe her when she says you must not talk without permission.

Get it into your head that you are a complete slave for this time period, a tool that she can use for her own benefit. Be mentally prepared to offer her suggestions about meals, duties, a night out, etc., but do not bring any of these things up unless she specifically asks you.

Everything Dymion suggested in his comment is perfect advice. Make sure that you're capable of following it. Forget about the state of your cock - it no longer belongs to you. As a slave, nothing belongs to you, and all that matters is her pleasure. Keep that in mind at all times, and you'll be fine.

She sounds serious, so don't take any of this lightly. Be prepared for physical discomfort and/or pain WITHOUT COMPLAINT! I wish you both a very happy weekend.

Anonymous said...

A solid job of housecleaning is a good, practical start, preferably impaled with something and dressed in a very non-masculine fashion. The insertable is removed only after a white glove inspection and subsequent paddling for infractions.

Anonymous said...

I would have to say that to truly start rebuilding a pet dish and collar are the starting point. Make your slave earn the right to stand upright

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widgets said...

Every suggestion made to you MUST be followed as this will get you to your goal faster. aj did this and another act that got me to my position in life overnight.

EsEm said...

My advice to you for the weekend, is not to speak until spoken too, when you speak keep it short and direct. At the end of the weekend you will have your chance to put in your two cents. Also do what every demanding things she ask no matter how big or small, with a good attitude. The better attitude you maintain the better weekend you will have and the more she will push you and reward you!

Anonymous said...

I think it is wonderful what LO7 has suggested she will do to get your head squared away. It must be rather frustrating to her to have someone who says he wants to be her submissive yet who is controlling when this happens. I don't mean to be harsh about it - it is something I struggle with sometimes too. She has given you plenty of warning to think about how you can best please her and attend to her. You know her better than any reader so my advice is to get out the paper and pen and start writing down your thoughts about anything and everything that you know she enjoys and also that you know she does not enjoy doing (things you can do in service to her). I wish you well!

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