Friday, August 20, 2010

Life is to short to be vanilla

With a few tragedies hitting close to home lately and every year getting a Little older my submissive side is fighting a little harder every day to live under more of LO7's control.The big question is will the Submissive me be happy when LO7 takes more control and will LO7 be happy being head of the household! I guess if we knew all the answers the journey would be kind of  boring !


Suzanne said...

Life's realities, whether they be day-to-day interruptions, or tragedies that put our life into perspective, give us an opportunity to take a step back and look at what is truly important to us. The journey is never boring....relish and savor it as You go deeper into the lifestyle.

Head of the Household said...

A note to LO7 and all other Head of the household wives. I was shocked when my husband told me of his submissive desires but thought hey I am open minded! Well 2 years into it and I could not imagine any other lifestyle. Being raised with always having a dog in the house I soon realized that training a submissive husband was a lot like training a puppy. If your husband is like mine was, his submission came and went at his convenience! Very frustrating to say the least. I have found that you must start your training with simple commands done in repetition with praise for obeying and punishment for disobeying. Simple puppy training! Trust me after training my man the simple command that when my right hand is raised his mouth must shut, has ended all of our argument and turned them into my controlled discussions. This is the most important command I use to control all situations and with 2 pre-teens in the house a discreet slight raise is all that is needed, its kid of nice in the bedroom to when the whining and begging starts to get annoying. Once this command is learned all other are a breeze, but remember don’t sway an inch on the constant punishment if he does not immediately obey the arm raise.
Good luck
Head of the household

wendy's pet said...

A comment on the above comment from Head of the Household. Yes there is nothing more humbling than when my Mistress straps on my doggy collar and leash and has me on hands and knees naked while she fully clothed leads me by the leash. This is my punishemnt for bad behavior and while the collar is on I am not permitted to speak. let me tell you when the leash is tied to the bedroom door knob and i am on all fours trying to catch a glimpse of my wife pleasuring herself on "our" bed I soon realize my place in our relationship

H.O.t.H said...

this post from "Wordhipping your wife fits nicely here as well
Hugs: Head of the Household
Au876 on Financial Control, Part 1

There have been a couple of comments from readers strongly agreeing with the previous posting, A Short Course in Wife Worship by Au876, especially Au’s thoughts on the benefits of the wife assuming total financial control in a wife-led marriage.

There was Allen, who commented, “Her whole personality changed when she took over all financial matters, and she is really good at it. This is the part that helped her enjoy her leadership in our marriage; even more then when I do all household chores.”

And Anonymous [wife] who wrote: “I agree that financial control for the wife is the most important part of the marriage and solidifies her (my) control. This was hard for me to manage at first, but now I would not have it any other way.”

My experience was exactly like Allen’s, and I imagine (though I have not asked her) that my wife is very much of Anonymous wife’s opinion. As I wrote once in an FLR blog (re “Stripping Hubby of Independence”):

“I certainly remember, as I took the steps at work to have my direct-deposit go into her private account, that this was one of those steps from fantasy into reality, one of those major turning points. And so it has proved. For years I had read about the ‘power exchange’ inherent in FLRs or Wife-Led Marriages. Well, now I know what it means. I no longer look at my beloved bride the way I did. Whenever I think of her, whenever she is in the room or speaks, there is an aura of power that surrounds her. And, yes, it is sexy. And she knows it, too.”

So, because there seem to be some very strong reactions to this particular preachment (and no doubt some of them will be negative, which is fine), and because Au876 was my mentor in taking this step, I thought I’d post more of his writings on the topic of financial control.

Because they were posted over a period of a couple years to Lady Misato’s original Yahoo! husbands’ forum, there is a certain amount of repetition. Think of it as reinforcement.

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