Rome wasn't built in a day...

Taking control in this lifestyle is not easy, it can be frustrating and rewarding. This was a fantasy Kb7 approached me with, looking to add some fire to our already hot sex life I was in for the exciting new challenge. For those who are dedicated to this lifestyle can relate with the daily challenges we face balancing kids, family, work, friends and life in general.
Over the past year at times I admit to feeling a little resentful towards Kb7,I often feel as though my roll is much more of an ongoing work in progress. I feel as though I am doing all the giving and changing to please KB7s sexual fantasies and desires. We are human and have our disagreements, admittedly not the best time to express my resentment. As a result we would both pull away from this lifestyle taking sometime to get back on track, making up is always extremely satisfying as I always feel like I get the last word as I regain control once again.
Recently after a very heated argument words had been exchanged and Kb7 misunderstood me, resulting in this blog being deleted. I felt as though this could quite possibly be the end of our relationship. Why?
This lifestyle is something we share with eachother and fellow followers exclusively. I have come to love, worship and admire my Kb7 not the vanilla husband that trys to regain control. Kb7 was shocked when I announced this could be the end of our marriage.Kb7 exploded saying "IT IS ONLY A BLOG"! I retaliated this is not a blog this is us, this is what we have become, this is not only your fantacy anymore this is mine, this is our life. I felt we could not move forward in the vanilla relationship any longer not after having a taste of the FLR! There was no going back, only moving forward with or without eachother. After a tearful couple of days Kb7 announced the blog was back, I can't tell you how relieved I was. I felt like the void was filled again.
I was surprised at how much I enjoy our lifestyle and our BLOG this is us and this is our story. No pain no gain! It is a struggle but very worth the effort. xoxoxo

back on track

LO7 was quite upset when she realized I had deleted the blog after an argument we had over this lifestyle and my (and Her) lack of commitment to living the FLR we talk about. I think the picture says a 1000 words and I assure all followers that We are back and LO7 is on a Fem Domme rampage, I sure all will enjoy any future posts, and I apologize to LO7 and our followers for deleting this blog.

we're back

sorry for the sudden vanishing  act, technical difficulties

Life is busy

Sorry for the absence
LO7 will be commenting on the last post. Has anyone else noticed how busy life has gotten lately?

Her pleasure first always

I don’t consider myself and Superman a fair comparison, I do not fear kryptonite!
Seriously I think the comic portrays submissive men accurately. We spend our Lives as the “male superhero protector” But our queen’s know we answer to them without hesitation. LO7, my queen gets frustrated when I slip into my Vanilla ways, orgasm denial is used to keep me focused. Lo7 may get frustrated but I also get frustrated because as I slip to the Vanilla side so too does she.As I sit here reading other Blogs and writing today I feel myself slipping back into the role I love… Servant Husband to the head of the household .. LO7.

Not Letting Up

LO7 is going to be sure that Submissive kb7 is the front and center personality she can expect at any time. Last night when she saw a hint of the old me coming out at the dinner table she gave me a look that needed no words, later out of earshot from the kids she reinforced her look by saying "Clean up then 10 minutes with the pocket pussy NO Cumming" Again I returned to the Subkb7 she has grown to love. I wanted to make love to my wife in the worst way , but knew the pocket pussy was the only pussy I would get this night!

Red Panties and Denial

LO7 noticed my transformation back into the sarcastic ,stubborn man before I even realized I was changing. That's why I was surprised when she pulled my red panties out and said "wear these today".. Right away I realized I was slipping out of my sub-zone when instead of being excited I only thought of how careful I would have to be all day bending and how Humiliated I would feel just talking to the guys knowing our secret. Wanting to please I put them on and within seconds LO7 commented on my hard-on. the feeling of my cock against the lace turned my brain right back into the sub zone. For the remainder of the day Badk struggled with Subk for control... We all know that Subk, won but just to make sure I understood that badk was not going to be tolerated LO7 went right from the red pantie punishment to tease and denial punishment taking me to the edge then with a wicked grin said "be careful what you wish for"... So today I am once again the Sub man that adores and worships my LO7